Typically our holidays are filled with with excitement, anticipation, anxiousness feelings, or disappointment of plans gone sour. When we choose to commit our ways to the Lord, our perspective is transformed and we live out the season in wonder, hope, and thankfulness. Margaret shares her experiences that we hope will encourage your heart if your very own plans have also been shattered. Be blessed as you read.
When Your Plans Are Shattered ~ Margaret Kemp
Just a few hours before, I’d been delighting in the Christmas-in-July displays at the craft store. As surveyed each shelf stocked with red and green nostalgia, I started counting the days until my family’s Christmas celebration.
With one little phone call, all my holiday plans shattered like a shiny green Christmas ornament.
You’re not coming for Christmas?! And your brother isn’t coming home either?!
I was the kid with the lump of coal in my stocking.
The Grinch was stealing my Christmas. Instead of hosting a big family gathering, my husband and I would be alone for the holidays. I mulled over this dilemma. How could I express my disappointment without burning the bridges that would bring my family over the river and through the woods to our house for Christmas?
I vented to my husband, my friend, my sister. Then I talked to the Lord.
Instead of singing “It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year,” I hummed a different song in my head,
“All to Jesus I Surrender, I Surrender All.”
I found “submit” and “obey,” but “surrender” was only used when one army was defeated by another. Perhaps “surrender” is not the best word to explain what God wants from us. In my mind, “surrender” implies defeat. But yielding our will to God’s will doesn’t mean we're vanquished. We're not losers waving a white flag and surrendering our plans to God. Wecommit our plans.
“Commit your way to the Lord. Trust also in Him, and He will do it.” Psalm 37:5 ESV
The word which is translated “commit” is the Hebrew “galal,” which means to roll. I needed to roll up my plans and give them to the Lord.
“Galal” is also used in Proverbs 16:3 “Commit your work to the Lord and your plans will be established.” (ESV)
I discovered additional advice: “The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.” Proverbs 16:9 ESV
We have hopes and dreams, but God has the final say. He lovingly orchestrates the events of our lives for our good and our growth. Sometimes our plans are established just as we envisioned them, and sometimes He takes us in a different direction.
the romance that ended…
the job I didn’t get…
goodbyes and rejections…
opportunities missed and treasures lost…
After every loss or unfulfilled desire, God gave me something better… a more loving relationship, a more suitable job, a closer connection to Himself.
Bitter disappointments can usher in God’s sweetest blessings.
But if we cling too tightly to our wish list, we can’t open our arms to receive God’s gifts. Maybe, like me, you’re dealing with disappointment. Let’s remind each other that we’re not defeated! We’re rolling up our wish list and offering it to the Giver of all good things, allowing Him to make changes and improvements for our benefit.
As it turned out, God’s plans were even better than mine. My husband and I were not going to be home alone for the holidays. Unexpected opportunities opened up, and we were the ones who would be traveling over the river and through the woods to spend Christmas with those we love.
If you didn’t get exactly what you were hoping for this year, keep your eyes open for a brighter, shinier package with your name on it. ~Margaret Kemp
Just incase you missed our Christmas video last week, it has been posted again here for you to view.
Christmas Video: https://youtu.be/SCInT0uMyBM
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