Restore Ministries, Inc.
  • Home
  • Who We Are
    • Doctrinal Beliefs
  • Events
    • Photo Gallery
    • Testimonials
    • Past Retreats
    • Reunion Pics
    • Thanksgiving Video 2017
  • Blog
  • The One Thing Home Study
  • Book Us!
  • Donate
  • Contact us
  • Melissa's Memorial Fund

Monday Musings
​Devotional Blog

Someone Who Understands -  Delighting in the Empathy of Jesus

5/27/2019

0 Comments

 
It is a joy to welcome back Margaret Kemp as a guest writer to Restore's Monday Musing Blog. Margaret writing always touches your heart in a place of deep need. As we move into the new season of summer, we are often faced with new struggles and often great expectations that sometimes bring disappointments. There is One who understands. I know you'll be encouraged by her words.
Kathy

 
Knees bent, arms raised, racket held high, I waited. Eyes fixed on the net, ears tuning out the clatter of other games in the field house, I got ready.

Swat.
Too late.
Moving side to side, anticipating the swoosh of the shuttlecock as it met the racket, I prepared again.
Swat.
Missed again. 
How could anyone fail at badminton? Badminton!
​

I thought badminton would be an easy class to fulfill the PE requirement for my Special Education degree. I was taking it Pass-Fail—not even for a letter grade. In the three years I’d been in college, I’d never dropped a course. Though I certainly wasn’t winning any medals for my athletic ability, I’d never struggled academically. Now, despite my best efforts, I was in danger of failing, and withdrawal seemed the best option.
My instructor encouraged me to stick with it, so I agreed to give it one more week. My badminton partner patiently served the birdie again and again. And my roommate, a Kinesiology major, helped me practice by throwing wads of paper across the dorm room.
I thought, Lord, why am I having such a hard time with this? 

As I poured out my complaints to the Lord, He spoke to me in the quietness of my spirit.
If you want to teach special needs children, you need to experience what they experience----the challenge of accomplishing skills that come easily to others. You need to learn empathy.

When we’ve experienced firsthand what someone else is going through, we are able to understand and share in their struggle. We can offer empathy.

Jesus is the Master of empathy.  He knows exactly how we feel---not just in an intellectual sense, but in a Been-There-Done-That kind of way. The Creator of the universe put on human skin. He felt the sun beating down on His head, the gritty desert sand scorching His feet, the lightning bolts of pain shooting through His body as nails were driven through His feet and hands. 
​

 He experienced the same temptations we do.  

In Matthew 4:1-11, we read about Jesus’ temptation in the wilderness. Jesus felt the clawing in his stomach and the temptation to satisfy that hunger in the wrong way.  Jesus knows what it’s like to see all the splendid things the world has to offer, and to know He could have them all without blood, sweat, and tears---if only He’d make a deal with the devil. He knows the taunting of the enemy, and He’s been faced with the same kind of choices we must make: Gratify the flesh or glorify the Father.

“For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin.  Hebrews 4:15 NKJV
Picture
Have you been mocked? Jesus know what that feels like. Betrayed? He’s been there, too. 
Are you weeping over lost loved ones or wayward children? Jesus wept over those things, too. 
Have you felt like no one understands, like even God has turned His back on you? Guess what…Jesus has firsthand experience with that, too. 

He knows the battles we face as well as the victory of overcoming temptation.  He tenderly reaches out to us and says, “I know it’s hard.  Here, let me help you.” He took the penalty for our sins, but He didn’t stop there.  Jesus didn’t leave us alone to swing aimlessly at the enticements the enemy serves into our court.  Jesus sent His Spirit to intercede for us and empower us.

“No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.” I Corinthians 10:13 NKJV
“Yet in all things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us.” Romans 8:37
Picture
 I finally learned to hit the shuttlecock and even grew to enjoy playing badminton. But the badminton dilemma was just the introductory course in God’s School of Empathy.  Since then, I’ve proceeded to graduate level courses---like divorce and serious illness.  Each lesson has rendered me a little less judgmental, a little more compassionate. And in these life-lessons, I’m learning to lean on the One who loves me.

 Do you know someone who needs a little extra patience and understanding today? 
Or maybe you’re the one who’s struggling---wrestling with temptation, grappling with pain and heartbreak, straining to do things that are just plain hard. Maybe it feels like no one understands. Turn to Jesus. He knows exactly how you feel, and He has the power to help. 

In our frailty, Jesus offers friendship. In our struggle, He offers strength. 
He’s the Master of Empathy. 
​

Lord Jesus, in our struggles, let us rest in your love and rely on your leading. In our temptations, guide us to that way of escape. Help us show empathy to our fellow strugglers.
Picture
“O, Lord, You have searched me and known me. You know my sitting down and my rising up; You understand my thought afar off. You comprehend my paths and my lying down, and are acquainted with all my ways.” Psalm 139: 1-3

Resting in Jesus,
Margaret

0 Comments



Leave a Reply.

    Sign Up to Receive our Blog via email.

    Enter your email address:

    Delivered by FeedBurner

    RSS Feed

    Click to set custom HTML

    Archives

    July 2021
    March 2021
    December 2020
    November 2020
    July 2020
    June 2020
    May 2020
    April 2020
    March 2020
    February 2020
    January 2020
    December 2019
    November 2019
    October 2019
    September 2019
    August 2019
    July 2019
    June 2019
    May 2019
    April 2019
    March 2019
    February 2019
    January 2019
    December 2018
    November 2018
    October 2018
    September 2018
    August 2018
    July 2018
    June 2018
    May 2018
    April 2018
    March 2018
    February 2018
    January 2018
    December 2017
    November 2017
    October 2017
    September 2017
    August 2017
    July 2017
    June 2017
    May 2017
    April 2017
    March 2017
    February 2017
    January 2017
    December 2016
    November 2016
    October 2016
    September 2016
    July 2016
    June 2016
    May 2016
    April 2016
    March 2016
    February 2016
    January 2016
    December 2015
    November 2015
    October 2015
    September 2015
    August 2015
    June 2015
    May 2015
    April 2015
    March 2015
    February 2015
    January 2015
    December 2014
    November 2014
    October 2014
    September 2014
    August 2014
    July 2014
    June 2014
    May 2014
    April 2014
    March 2014
    February 2014
    January 2014
    December 2013
    November 2013
    October 2013
    September 2013
    August 2013
    July 2013
    June 2013
    May 2013
    April 2013
    March 2013
    February 2013
    January 2013

    Categories

    All




    Picture
Copyright 2019 ​
Photo used under Creative Commons from DDFic
  • Home
  • Who We Are
    • Doctrinal Beliefs
  • Events
    • Photo Gallery
    • Testimonials
    • Past Retreats
    • Reunion Pics
    • Thanksgiving Video 2017
  • Blog
  • The One Thing Home Study
  • Book Us!
  • Donate
  • Contact us
  • Melissa's Memorial Fund